Greetings and Polite Phrases
Remember, in Portugal, greetings are a valuable element of communication. A handshake is appropriate when meeting, and among close friends, cheek kisses are used. Pay attention to titles. It is wise to use “senhor” or “senhora” and professional titles like “doctor” before a person’s name.
Table Etiquette
If you are invited to dinner at a Portuguese host’s home, do not bring wine. Instead, choose flowers or sweets as a gift. During meals, the knife and fork should be held in the European style: knife in the right hand, fork in the left. Remember to keep your hands visible on the table, but not your elbows.
Punctuality
In Portugal, punctuality is appreciated in business situations. However, social gatherings may have a more relaxed sense of time. It is advisable to arrive slightly late, no more than 15 minutes. Arriving too early can be considered impolite.
Small Gestures and Eye Contact
Portuguese culture values subtlety. Therefore, eye contact should be moderate. Also, pay attention to conversations — interruptions are rare. Small gestures, like a gentle smile, are appreciated and help build relationships.
Business Culture
In business interactions, directness and professionalism are valued. Meetings usually start with a brief conversation to build relationships. Formal attire is the standard, especially in larger companies. Business cards are exchanged at the start of a meeting, and receiving them with a brief comment is a polite gesture.
Basic Restaurant Rules
When entering a restaurant, always wait for the staff to seat you. If the tip is not automatically included in the bill, leaving a tip of about 10% is appreciated.
Avoid Taboo Topics
Conversations about politics, the activities of Portuguese monarchs, or social conflicts might be uncomfortable. Instead, choose safe topics like cuisine, football, or local traditions. Avoid comparisons with neighboring Spain, as it may not always be well-received.
Remember Small Local Customs
When purchasing local products, it’s normal to haggle slightly at markets. This is a common practice, but always do so with a smile and in a good tone. Portuguese people appreciate interest in their culture and attempts to use the Portuguese language, even if you are not fluent.
By adhering to these guidelines, you will earn the goodwill of the Portuguese and avoid unnecessary faux pas. Respect and politeness are key to successful social and business relationships in Portugal.
